All around when you look, you will find mostly selfish, greedy, self-centered people living an insecure & unsatisfactory life which only they know. These vanities make them Egoist, Impatient, Angry, Restless, Uncooperative, Arrogant, Jealous, Envious and often Hate-filled. Through money, show-off, opulence, up-man-ship, their whole life centers around themselves. But, whatever, we live long enough in life, we get used to, even miseries. 'Nanak, Dukhiya sab sansar' wrote Guru Nanak, some five centuries ago. ("whole world is unhappy"). Let us examine some alternatives which requires 'CHANGE'.
It is said that 'change is the only constant in life'. Still, we fear change. There are lingering insecurities in our mind which take over when we think of change. But for progress, growth, better living habits & a better life, we must change our mindset. Because, if we keep doing the same thing, we shall lead the same type of life full of arrogance, jealousy, anger, impatience and restlessness. There is one more important thing about change. We can only change 'OURSELVES' not everyone else. We must accept others as they are who might change once they see you living a better life through change. So, one of the governing rule of life is 'CHANGE WHAT YOU CAN BUT ACCEPT WHAT YOU CANNOT'. Trouble starts in our lives when we do not accept what we cannot change and keep cribbing, complaining or blaming others for that.
Now just look at the ALTERNATIVE we are suggesting. Life reflects. What we are, same we see in others. Create love, giving-sharing-helping attitude, gratitude & forgiveness, shun hostility & embrace humility, be polite and courteous and so many things which we think we are doing for others. NO. We are wrong. We do not do such good things for others, WE DO FOR OURSELVES, for our own happiness, peace and joy. Others will respond the same way, with goodness, courtesy and positivity. Throw out the negativity of any kind from your mindset. Wash it down with positive attitude and resulting in positive thoughts,a feel good factor. BECOME A POSITIVE PERSON. Seeing you CHANGE, others will follow suite.
Enjoy your new found stature as a POSITIVE PERSON. Bring in required changes in your life, if in spite of everything, you feel miserable at times. It is easier than what you think. So, do not start from today but from NOW. Life is not to be wasted on feeling miserable about past or feeling insecure about future. Do not give any place to fear in your mind, since 92% of things will not happen the way you think and more you think negative, fear grows. DO GOOD FOR GOODNESS WILL RETURN, TO FEEL LOVE BE MORE LOVING. Enjoy what you have rather what you want. Our Thanks & Gratitude.
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